GENTLEMEN'S GUIDE

Insinuate’s resident Lingerie Mistress reveals her expert lingerie buying tips, for him and for her

Men should know how to buy lingerie. Look no further for advice; here are my tips for doing it in style:

WHY BUY LINGERIE FOR YOUR LOVER?

Because it’s hot, silly! Buying lingerie can be a titillating experience in itself, just imagine her wearing it later! What’s more, it shows your lover you worship her body and value your sex life. It’s an erotic experience for both the giver and the receiver. The foreplay starts here.

WHAT TO CHOOSE

Something that SHE will like and feel sexy in. Pleasing your own fantasy is a classic selfish mistake. The more comfortable she is, the more confident she will be, the sexier she will feel and better the sex will be. Once you accomplish this she will want to indulge in all your fantasies too!

Be observant. What is her favourite colour? Is she classically stylish or a trend hunter? Is she a girly girl that likes bows and frills or is she a slick powerful woman who likes to dominate in the bedroom? Does she wear briefs or thongs? What does SHE think is her best feature? Does she like to show cleavage or is she more comfortable showing off her bum?

Generally speaking, the more you know about your partner’s taste the easier it becomes to be adventurous and get it right. Find time to look through magazines or online together, you’ll soon find out what catches her eye...

If you’re buying for new partner it is a good idea to play it safe and choose something classic.

The number one rule is to remember the gift is for her. You will get your thank you.